Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Drama advice. Yuck.

I've decided to let totally lose in this blog. Let all my feelings out. :)
There's one thing that teenage girls do really well, other then put their make-up on, other then pick out cute clothes. There's this thing, it's called drama. Lately I've been realizing regardless of who and what girl it is they're always surrounded by drama.
My life this time last year was beginning to become full of drama and hatred. I was not the nicest person and I know I hurt people. I'm sorry for that. I can't re-do it but I can regret it, and I do. Now I've been put in a world where I'm the one being hated, and I'm the one being picked on. Still.
This whole thing started about a half a year ago, over god knows what. Since girls start fight usually over something incredibly stupid I'm sure that's it. Anyways, did I think bad stuff about the people I was fighting with? Yes. Did I do bad things to the girls I was fighting with? I tried not too. Now that it's all past and I can look at the suituation without being thrown into it I realized all my fighting back, all my vitious messages, and vitious text messages were a waste. Because people like that, people that are jealous, and rude and overall bitches, those are the people you need to stay away from. My little sister is finding herself in the middle of drama and I'm mainly aiming this towards her.
If someone is already picking a fight with you, and making you cry, and upset and want to do things that you shouldn't do, they're obviously not worth your time or energy. Just wasting that time or energy is giving them what they want, to make you upset which is exactly what it'll do.
Don't get me wrong, a little drama is good, it keeps you humble, but at the same time. It's wrong, and it does hurt people, no matter how big or how small their heart is.
In conclusion I can safely say I try my best to keep myself out of drama. I keep myself humble at all times and I changed myself into being a good person who tries to keep drama away. I also have learned from my mistakes. Fighting back won't get you anywhere, it's leaving it alone, and ignoring it in the long run that'll keep you strong.
Oh and if they're still talking/gossiping about you consider it a compliment. It means that you've obviously made an impact on your life and hey, better to be talked about then not.
Love times a million,
Nat.

Currently listening to:
"Only Fooling Myself" By: Kate Voegele.

Quote of the blog:
"[People say]‘You’re always happy’ and I’m, like, sometimes I have a huge zit on my face. But if you smile, people won’t notice that. I do have bad-hair days but if you feel confident in yourself it would make people want to be around you."
- Cheyenne Kimball.

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